are some things that are okay with your girlfriends but will drive your
boyfriend crazy. Why is that? Boys and girls have different hormones and
brains and this tends to make them think and behave differently. Here
are my top tips on things to avoid to keep things sweet with your fella.
Talk about ex's.
love these kinds of gory details and will help you pick over it again
and again. This might help you understand why certain stuff happened but
can get to be an obsession that really gets you down and is a real no-no
when you're with your new guy. Your boyfriend wants to be the one and
only, and don't want that illusion shattered by you talking about other
Obsess about your appearance, or weight.
He's really not interested, and probably hasn't
even noticed that tiny spot on your chin or that new hair color. He likes
you as you are, or you wouldn't be together would you!
Rave about chunky film stars and other "beautiful" people.
How would you like to be compared to someone else?
He's just as body and image conscious as you and under as much media hyped
pressure to have a "perfect" body and clothes. His fragile ego
can't take it!
Keep changing your mind.
If you change your mind as often as your underwear,
your men are going to find it difficult to keep up with you. He will get
tired, loose interest and figure that you don't know your own mind
girlfriends might agree with this one too!
5. Avoid making decisions.
Girls will attempt to find a solution that keeps
everyone happy, putting the needs of the group before their own. Boys
just want a decision made and can get frustrated with what they think
to be unnecessary time-wasting asking other people what they want or think!
6. Be bitchy and hold grudges.
It's true that boys can be fighting one minute and
best buddies the next. They generally don't hold grudges and will not
find it pleasant to listen to your gripes or snipes or even begin to understand
why you no longer speak to such and such a person. They just don't get
7. Down play your successes.
will be okay with you being great at something - they really understand
competition and success. They will actually prefer a girlfriend they can
be proud of and brag about to their mates!
you want to really understand what makes boys tick and get some insight
on the differences between boys and girls, read "Why
Men Don't Listen And Women Can't Read Maps" by Barbara and
Allan Pease. In
my opinion it's much better that the popular "Men Are From Mars and
Women Are From Venus" by John Gray.
on the book link to go to Amazon.com to purchase the book or maybe checkout
your local library for a copy.